Dare to be Different with Craig White

S2E17: Denis Betts - Ego, Regret & Life Beyond Rugby

Craig White Season 2 Episode 17

Denis Betts is a rugby league legend.

But behind the trophies and the Great Britain caps lies a story about ego, endings, and learning what really matters.

In this raw and revealing conversation, Denis and I dive into:

  • Why he chose to let go of anger in his mid-twenties
  • The clash of egos and the regret of stepping away too soon
  • The role of family and the influence of strong women in his life
  • What coaching Wigan Women has taught him about leadership
  • Why joy and purpose matter more than medals

This is Denis Betts like you’ve never heard him before.

SHOW NOTES

The Making of a Legend

  • Dennis’s rise at Wigan and Great Britain
  • What success looked like in a golden era of rugby league

Family, Joy & Simplicity

  • Why his happiest moments weren’t always on the pitch
  • Grass, sun, family dinners — finding joy in the small things

Letting Go of Anger

  • The moment he decided anger wasn’t serving him anymore
  • Playing a violent sport without carrying violence inside

Ego, Endings & Regret

  • The clashing egos that led to his retirement
  • The regret of stepping away too soon
  • Lessons from endings and identity beyond sport

Strong Women & Leadership

  • Raising three daughters and how it shaped him
  • Coaching Wigan Warriors Women
  • What leadership really means when you adapt to the people in front of you